Our children are our most valuable commodity. Like other perishable items, however, the expiration on childhood comes up very quickly. Soon they will be out of the house, away from our influence, and making their own decisions. So, before they pack their bags and head off into the real world, here are a few life tips to teach your children before they leave your care. You may be wondering why an article like this is in this magazine. Well, whether you are young on the job, or nearing the end, I can almost guarantee that sometime in your career you will work with another firefighter’s child. If I need to explain further—have a talk with your parents!
1. Teach them your family history—make sure the grandparents have their input.
2. Take them on a date—that way they know how to treat their potential mate in the future.
3. Why and how to save money – make them save a little money. It will become habit.
4. How to set and reach goals – make them realistic but not too easy. It’s always better when earned.
5. How to use tools—hand and power. Nothing is more satisfying than building it yourself.
6. Gun safety – they don’t have to own one but they should know how to handle one.
7. How to play golf and/or tennis – teaches patience and finesse.
8. How – and more importantly why – to write a thank you card.
9. How to drive a car – an Uber is not always available.
10. How to shave—if applicable.
11. How to have a disagreement with a person and walk away still friends.
12. How to shop for food, although they will never outgrow a Happy Meal—nor should they.
13. Why to vote – explain to them it’s a right and a privilege.
14. Teach them to believe in something more than themselves.
15. Teach them how to play poker—it’s not just a card game.
16. Show them how to create a resume—They need to get off your payroll.
17. Teach them how to read a map and they will never be lost.
18. Explain how to pay a bill on time and why.
19. Make them paint a room and then make them do another to get it right.
20. Why they should volunteer – you should be leading by example on this one.
21. How to change a tire. AAA—really!
22. Explain generosity, then practice it yourself in front of them.
23. How to book a trip.
24. How to cook a good burger on the grill—there is nothing better!
25. How to make a good cup of coffee—I shouldn’t have to explain this one to you!
These items may seem trivial to some of you, but I can assure you, they are not. Life happens and we all need advice and instruction from time to time. What you teach your children now will impact not only their lives, but yours as well, because children may grow up, but they will always need their parents. Parenthood doesn’t stop at 18. Parenthood is a life-long position. Make it count!